I'm Looking for a Good Diet Plan

Okay, here's the thing...I'm looking for a good diet plan. I'm actually physically active, but I SUCK at the whole food thing.

This is what I know about losing weight:

1. It is difficult
2. It is bland
3. It takes will power that I don't have

Or do I?

I'm thinking I just need something good. You know, a weight loss program that doesn't make me feel like I'm starving. Basically, all physical activity has done for me is cause my weight to stay exactly where it is for three months or more. That means I need to cut out the bad stuff and introduce the good stuff.

I know I need to eat more fruits and vegetables
I know I need to cut my carbs down
I know I need to stop the gummy bear obsession
I know I need to stop eating so late at night
I know I need to stop starving during the day and taking it all in during dinner

So here is where I'm leaning:




I have heard good things about this weight loss program. I have some friends doing it and they're having some luck. I'm even considering P90X with it, so I'm thinking I can have my beach bod by August. If this is a cheap weight loss program that will allow me to have that cupcake in the picture, I just might be going for it. 
If any of you all try it, I would love to hear about it.